On the strike of 20.

Sweethearts, your mind and bodies are changing, but don’t threat this will be the best glow up you ever receive. Your brain begins to fully mature, meaning your cringey teenage phases are now over. You naturally become wiser in your decisions, although it doesn’t mean you won’t make mistakes along the way. 

You feel a surge of clear self awareness and clearer understanding, connecting to your emotions more intuitively.  Physically your hormones are beginning to stabilise, but that also means your body changes, your hips  and shoulders widen, boobs grow and suddenly your reflection in the bathroom mirror is that pf a stunning grown woman. Yes, welcome to your natural prime, my girls, you are entering the beautiful years of womanhood.

Due to your mind, evolving your thought processes become clearer you know what you want in love, relationships become more meaningful as well as learning to feel fulfilled with the freedom of being a Singleton.  If you were one of the girls who would stay up late night wondering if they liked you back, don’t worry I was one too! and guess what? You wake up one morning and think do I even care? And that my dears is what we call growth. Period.

And it doesn’t stop there. You become more affirmative with yourself, you subconsciously know what you want before knowing it. And utilise this newfound strength to strive for achievement. From part-time shift here to emerging out of your comfort zone, taking that risk and fighting to the top of your game. That girl boss energy surges out of you like a lethal weapon, and you will not hesitate to strike.

This stage of life is a means of independence, no more begging mum and dad to let stretch your curfew till midnight, but instead you can book that impulsive flight, create your own unforgettable and might i say spontaneous memories on your girls trip or even a solo adventure for the ultra-independent girlies, exhilarated to experience new walks of life as well as revel in your own solitude. If travelling is on your bucket list, then pack a bag and get ready to submerge in the beauty of the world outside your home town.

Entering your 20s is entirely about self-growth; you don’t have to know all the answers. And of course, there are miles of road bumps and unexpected turns ahead, which is what is so thrilling about it. Whether it’s right or wrong, the best decision you made or making big mistake. Just show up and glow up my lovelies. 

By Emily Ayse Jemal.