Passion ignited: Tips to spice up your sex life
From kinks to candles, Here are five tips to spice up your boring and repetitive sex life.
A healthy sex life is important to any romantic relationship and is throughout our lives. If you and your partner are experiencing difficulty connecting in the bedroom or the two of you are just finding the same repetitive positions boring then you should give these tips a try.
Try different positions
The same positions again and again in the bedroom can become repetitive and boring so spicing up the positions you do every now and again can help you and your partner enjoy sex more. By trying a new position, you and your partner get to explore the different positions which pleasure you both. Fantastic TikTok account and podcast to listen to is dirty talk. it explores different sex positions and questions you might have. To also learn about new positions, there is a list of books below that demonstrate new positions for you and your partner to try.
Sex Position books:
The little black book of sex by Jennifer Baritchi
Position of the Day: Sex Every Day in Every Way by nerve.com
100 Sex Positions For Fun: Lots of Fun by Mary Jane West
Focus on each others desires
Have you or your partner ever wanted to delve into a new kink in the bedroom but have been worried about giving it a try? Why not just give it a go. Exploring these fantasies or kinks as a couple gives you the chance to explore the different ways of pleasure you can endure. Before taking a step into trying out these kinks try talking to your partner about them and a great recommendation to get this conversation started is the Let’s Talk About Kinks game from sinful.
Try toys
Toys aren’t only for personal pleasure during your down time they can also be used together as a couple. Toys can be used for foreplay or during the act. They can be versatile as the sex toy market expands each year with new toys for different forms and levels of pleasure. If you want to start your journey with toys, id recommend reading the article Top 5 Vibrators to Elevate Your Pleasure in 2024. this article dives into the best vibrators to buy giving you a guide in where to start.
Initiate the act or change control
if it’s always your partner initiating the act, why not try switching it up for a change. This little change really does bring a whole new atmosphere to the bedroom. As well as this switching control from the more dominant person can be an idea to try as it gives you the chance to explore the dominant or submissive sides of sex. Making initiating sex easier is a great video for those who don’t really initiate the act as it talks you through different ways which might suit you best.
Enhance the bedroom experience
enhancing the bedroom experience can bring a whole new vibe to sex. By using candles, changing the bedding to silk sheets or even playing some music. These slight changes can bring the spark back into yours and your partner’s sex life. To get even more advice on enhancing the bedroom experience try going into ann summers they offer many products such as massage oils, pheromone candles, and sex games that increase the atmosphere of your bedroom.
Written by Rhianna Sweeney Clark Photos from Unsplash
